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Emotional abuse refers to a long-term situation in which one person uses his or her power or influence to adversely affect the mental well-being of another. Emotional abuse can appear in a variety of forms, including rejection, degradation, isolation, corruption, exploitation, and invoking terror.

Contents 1 Emotional abuse indicators 1.1 Checklist 2 See also 3 External links

Emotional abuse can be difficult to observe when it is perpetrated in the privacy of someone else's home, or in a closed institution. However, personal awareness and understanding of the issue is key to recognizing it. The following is a list of possible indicators of emotional abuse:

• depression
• withdrawal
• low self-esteem
• severe anxiety
• failure to establish a mutually acceptable manner in which to manage differences
• fearfulness
• failure to thrive in infancy
• aggression
• emotional instability
• sleep disturbances
• physical complaints with no medical basis
• inappropriate behaviour for age or development
• overly passive/compliant
• suicide attempts or discussion
• extreme dependence
• underachievement
• inability to trust
• stealing
• feelings of shame and guilt
• Self-injury or Self-harm
• frequent crying
• self-blame or self-deprecation
• delay or refusal of medical treatment
• discomfort or nervousness around carer or relative
• avoidance of eye contact
• problems in school or work that manifest into the need to cease activities
• eating disorders

The following lists indicators that you can use to gauge whether you are being subjected to emotional abuse (adapted from [1]):

• You understand their feelings, but they never attempt to understand yours
• They dismiss your difficulties or issues as unimportant or an overreaction
• Your feelings are consistently invalidated
• They do not listen to you
• They put their needs before yours
• They expect you to perform tasks that you find unpleasant or humiliating
• You "walk on eggshells" in an effort not to upset them
• They ignore logic and prefer histrionics in order to remain the center of attention
• They manipulate you into feeling guilty for things that have nothing to do with you
• They attempt to destroy any outside support you receive by belittling that support in an effort to retain exclusive control over your emotions
• They do not take responsibility for hurting others
• They blame other people and circumstances for any unfortunate events in their lives
• They perceive themselves as martyrs or victims and constantly expect preferential treatment
• Maltreatment occurs especially when they are unhappy with your behavior
• They love you and treat you like a prince(ss) when they are happy with your behavior
• They aren't happy with your behavior very often
• They compare you negatively to others
• They seem to treat other people kindly, and you're the only one that seems to be yelled at by them'

• Child abuse
• Domestic violence
• Psychological abuse
• Relationship counseling
• Parental Alienation Syndrome
• Medea complex

• You Carry the Cure in Your Own Heart by Andrew Vachss, article that discusses the effects of emotional abuse of children and steps for the now-adult victim to take, to heal from their emotionally abusive past.
• http://www.thisisawar.com/AbuseEmotional.htm
• http://eqi.org/eabuse1.htm
• The Emotional Abuse Checklist